{"id":2363,"date":"2017-12-20T22:59:58","date_gmt":"2017-12-20T22:59:58","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/www.therealgeobooth.com\/?p=2363"},"modified":"2017-12-13T03:00:24","modified_gmt":"2017-12-13T03:00:24","slug":"classic-post-on-traditions-updated","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.therealgeobooth.com\/?p=2363","title":{"rendered":"Classic Post: On Traditions &#8211; Updated"},"content":{"rendered":"<div>\n<h4><span style=\"color: #243333;\"><i>&#8220;<strong>N<\/strong>othing comes from nothing. Nothing ever could&#8221; &#8212; Richard Rogers (&#8220;Something Good&#8221;)<\/i><\/span><\/h4>\n<div id=\"attachment_476\" style=\"width: 310px\" class=\"wp-caption alignright\"><a href=\"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/www.therealgeobooth.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2014\/12\/IMG_1296.jpg\"><img data-recalc-dims=\"1\" loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" aria-describedby=\"caption-attachment-476\" class=\"size-medium wp-image-476\" src=\"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/www.therealgeobooth.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2014\/12\/IMG_1296.jpg?resize=300%2C287\" alt=\"&quot;Not the Baby Jesus Play Set!&quot;\" width=\"300\" height=\"287\" srcset=\"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/www.therealgeobooth.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2014\/12\/IMG_1296.jpg?resize=300%2C287&amp;ssl=1 300w, https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/www.therealgeobooth.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2014\/12\/IMG_1296.jpg?resize=1024%2C982&amp;ssl=1 1024w, https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/www.therealgeobooth.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2014\/12\/IMG_1296.jpg?resize=760%2C729&amp;ssl=1 760w, https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/www.therealgeobooth.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2014\/12\/IMG_1296.jpg?resize=416%2C400&amp;ssl=1 416w, https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/www.therealgeobooth.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2014\/12\/IMG_1296.jpg?resize=82%2C78&amp;ssl=1 82w, https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/www.therealgeobooth.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2014\/12\/IMG_1296.jpg?resize=600%2C575&amp;ssl=1 600w, https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/www.therealgeobooth.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2014\/12\/IMG_1296.jpg?w=1520 1520w, https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/www.therealgeobooth.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2014\/12\/IMG_1296.jpg?w=2280 2280w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 300px) 100vw, 300px\" \/><\/a><p id=\"caption-attachment-476\" class=\"wp-caption-text\">&#8220;Not the Baby Jesus Play Set!&#8221;<\/p><\/div>\n<\/div>\n<div><\/div>\n<div><\/div>\n<div>As Christmas approaches, I&#8217;ve been thinking about the importance of traditions. \u00a0Having a\u00a0set of practices tied to the Christmas season has generated lots of benefits for me and my household. \u00a0I credit our traditions with\u00a0the following:<\/div>\n<div><\/div>\n<ul>\n<li>Making memories and sharing experiences that strengthen bonds &#8212; Recalling good times brings kind and affectionate feelings to the fore, making family dynamics more peaceful.<\/li>\n<li>Establishing and reinforcing\u00a0family\u00a0identity &#8212; We know and embrace our own by the practices and beliefs we share. \u00a0It&#8217;s called the family circle for a reason.<\/li>\n<li>Creating a sense of home &#8212; The songs we sing, the foods we eat together, the smells of the season are powerful reminders that there is a place in the world where you&#8217;re loved, accepted and always welcome.<\/li>\n<li>Reinforcing our values &#8212; It&#8217;s very hard to separate who we are from what we do. The things we hold in high regard become obvious according to the ways we allocate our time and resources.<\/li>\n<li>Generating stories and family lore &#8212; This is the birthplace of great tales of running jokes that go on for decades. \u00a0I suspect my sons will someday say to their children regarding the manger scenes in their homes: &#8220;It&#8217;s not the Baby Jesus Play Set!&#8221; \u00a0As you can see, not all traditions are created on purpose &#8212; that&#8217;s where those great stories come from.<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<div>We have a number of Christmas Eve traditions that have been part of our observance for years. \u00a0Here are some of my favorites:<\/div>\n<ul>\n<li>As I mentioned above, we have a\u00a0cr\u00e8che that we set out at the start of Advent. \u00a0It was pretty much just Jesus, Mary and Joseph at first, but over the past several years,\u00a0we&#8217;ve added a\u00a0new figure each year. \u00a0The Three Wise Men came as a set, though.<\/li>\n<li>We always attend our church&#8217;s Christmas Eve service. \u00a0At the service there&#8217;s a special offering for a worthwhile ministry effort and we always plan beforehand how much to give.<\/li>\n<li>For the past several years, we&#8217;ve gone out to dinner following the Christmas Eve service to enjoy a feast of Peking Duck. \u00a0Perhaps the movie <a title=\"A Christmas Story\" href=\"http:\/\/www.imdb.com\/title\/tt0085334\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">&#8220;A Christmas Story&#8221;<\/a> (another tradition) may have influenced this choice, but it gives our kitchen the night off before a day of heavy use. \u00a0The crisp skin of Peking Duck &#8212; and even the thought of it &#8212; makes me think of Christmas.<\/li>\n<li>When we return home following the meal, we all bring the presents we&#8217;re giving and place them under the tree. \u00a0None appear there before &#8212; it&#8217;s a tradition we&#8217;ve kept since even before we implemented <a title=\"The Advent Conspiracy -- A Cure for Grinches?\" href=\"http:\/\/www.therealgeobooth.com\/?p=397\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">The Advent Conspiracy<\/a>.<\/li>\n<li>This is followed by the hanging of Christmas stockings, some photographs and &#8212; in spite of all good sense &#8212; a late bedtime.<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<div>We have other Christmas traditions, too &#8212; like keeping the tree up until Twelfth Night\/Epiphany\/Three Kings Day, listening to Andrew Peterson&#8217;s <a title=\"BTLOG - Labor of Love\" href=\"https:\/\/www.youtube.com\/watch?v=gYjYi4tYvXU\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">&#8220;Behold The Lamb of God&#8221;<\/a> , Vince Guaraldi&#8217;s <a href=\"https:\/\/www.amazon.com\/Charlie-Brown-Christmas-Remastered-Expanded\/dp\/B0090X4H0W%3FSubscriptionId%3DAKIAILSHYYTFIVPWUY6Q%26tag%3Dduckduckgo-ffab-20%26linkCode%3Dxm2%26camp%3D2025%26creative%3D165953%26creativeASIN%3DB0090X4H0W\">&#8220;A Charlie Brown Christmas&#8221;<\/a>, and Over the Rhine&#8217;s <a href=\"https:\/\/www.amazon.com\/s\/ref=nb_sb_noss_2\/168-9575127-0573905?url=search-alias%3Dpopular&amp;field-keywords=Over+the+Rhine+SNow+angel\">&#8220;Snow Angels&#8221;<\/a> (you&#8217;re welcome!), and eating beef for Christmas dinner. \u00a0None of these things is required\u00a0in itself. \u00a0These are\u00a0 what we&#8217;ve established over time.<\/div>\n<div><\/div>\n<div>Part of the joy of married life is the establishment of your own traditions. \u00a0Some will be a continuation of the ones you grew up with, while others all be from your wife&#8217;s upbringing. \u00a0Still others will be the ones you create together.\u00a0 And if you live long enough to become a grandfather, you get the enjoyment of continuing your own traditions while watching your children continue them while creating their own. In every case, consistency is the key, and you must be present to win. \u00a0Merry Christmas!<\/div>\n<div><\/div>\n<h4><span style=\"color: #243333;\"><strong>So how about you?<\/strong> \u00a0What are some of your favorite Christmas traditions? \u00a0Add your comments below.<\/span><\/h4>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>&#8220;Nothing comes from nothing. Nothing ever could&#8221; &#8212; Richard Rogers (&#8220;Something Good&#8221;) As Christmas approaches, I&#8217;ve been thinking about the importance of traditions. \u00a0Having a\u00a0set of practices tied to the Christmas season has generated lots of benefits for me and my household. \u00a0I credit our traditions with\u00a0the following: Making memories and sharing experiences that strengthen [&hellip;]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_exactmetrics_skip_tracking":false,"_jetpack_newsletter_access":"","_jetpack_dont_email_post_to_subs":false,"_jetpack_newsletter_tier_id":0,"_jetpack_memberships_contains_paywalled_content":false,"_jetpack_feature_clip_id":0,"_jetpack_memberships_contains_paid_content":false,"footnotes":"","jetpack_publicize_message":"","jetpack_publicize_feature_enabled":true,"jetpack_social_post_already_shared":true,"jetpack_social_options":{"image_generator_settings":{"template":"highway","default_image_id":0,"font":"","enabled":false},"version":2},"jetpack_post_was_ever_published":false},"categories":[82,81,83,13,96,118,41,97,1],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-2363","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-advent","category-advent-conspiracy","category-christmas","category-faith","category-family","category-fatherhood","category-legacy","category-tradition","category-uncategorized"],"jetpack_publicize_connections":[],"jetpack_sharing_enabled":true,"jetpack_featured_media_url":"","_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.therealgeobooth.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/2363","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.therealgeobooth.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.therealgeobooth.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.therealgeobooth.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.therealgeobooth.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcomments&post=2363"}],"version-history":[{"count":1,"href":"https:\/\/www.therealgeobooth.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/2363\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":2364,"href":"https:\/\/www.therealgeobooth.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/2363\/revisions\/2364"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.therealgeobooth.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fmedia&parent=2363"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.therealgeobooth.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcategories&post=2363"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.therealgeobooth.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Ftags&post=2363"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}